An absolutely beautiful quote I read …
“Memory is the ability to gather roses in winter.”

I am not wise enough to even guess why bad things happen to good people.

I do know that when bad things happen it is a reminder to:

Choose to see the good that does develop in horrific situations,
Choose to be less self-centered,
Love & hug,
Make memories,
Be grateful,
Get your life on a good path,
Better myself – do not become bitter,
Remember to pray … but not only in the bad times.

Believe that good is stronger than evil.